Why some people say companies are Like Sanctuaries?

How Systemic Constellations Help Businesses Thrive in Harmony

In a world where corporations are often seen as impersonal, profit-driven machines, it’s time to return to a deeper, more human-centered understanding of organizations — one that acknowledges their soul, energy, and impact on the lives they touch. This perspective is beautifully articulated in the work of Bert Hellinger, the founder of Systemic Constellations.

Through his revolutionary approach, Hellinger teaches us that companies are living systems, deeply intertwined with the people who work in them, the families they support, and the society they serve. To truly understand the essence of a business, we must recognize this fundamental truth:

“Companies are like sanctuaries — they feed families.”

Let’s unpack this idea and explore how systemic constellation work can help businesses realign, heal, and flourish by honoring their true purpose.


What Is Systemic Constellation Work in Organizations?

Systemic Constellation Work, developed by Bert Hellinger, is a therapeutic and organizational tool that allows us to uncover hidden dynamics within systems — whether they are families, teams, or entire businesses.

In organizational contexts, this method helps leaders:

  • Identify energetic blocks and hidden loyalties
  • Resolve conflicts and unspoken tensions
  • Re-establish order, belonging, and balance
  • Clarify leadership structures and purpose
  • Heal ancestral or historical traumas that influence decision-making

The core principle is simple but profound: every system seeks balance and acknowledgment. When something is out of place, ignored, or forgotten, it creates tension that can manifest in many forms — poor performance, conflict, employee turnover, or financial difficulties.


The Sacred Role of Companies in Society

When we say a company is like a sanctuary, we evoke imagery of a protected space — a place that offers support, nourishment, safety, and meaning.

This metaphor isn’t poetic fluff. It reflects the sacred nature of organizational work when viewed through the systemic lens:

  • Companies provide livelihoods. Every paycheck is food on a table, rent paid, children educated.
  • They shape identities. People often introduce themselves by saying what they “do.” Work becomes an extension of self.
  • They build legacy. Many businesses, especially family-owned, carry the hopes and dreams of generations.

So when a company is thriving, it’s not just profit margins that grow — families are fed, dreams are nurtured, and communities are strengthened.


Systemic Order: The Three Principles That Guide a Healthy Organization

Hellinger identified three core systemic principles that must be honored in any healthy system: Belonging, Order, and Balance in Giving and Receiving. When these are violated in organizations, problems inevitably arise.

1. Belonging

Everyone who is part of a system — past or present — has a right to belong.

In companies, this includes:

  • Founders, even if they’ve left or failed
  • Former employees
  • Clients and customers
  • Key contributors
  • The original purpose of the organization

Ignoring or excluding people or elements that were once integral to the company can lead to unconscious sabotage or stagnation. For example, when a founder is pushed out without acknowledgment, loyal employees may feel divided or lost, even if they don’t consciously understand why.

2. Order

Every system has a natural hierarchy based on time, responsibility, and contribution.

When newer team members are given more authority without honoring the experience of those who came before, disorder arises. Similarly, when leadership roles are confused or inverted (e.g., when the owner acts like an employee, or vice versa), it creates systemic confusion.

In a healthy business system:

  • The founder or owner holds the “parent” role
  • Leadership guides the vision and structure
  • Employees contribute and carry out operations
  • Everyone knows their place and role with respect

3. Balance in Giving and Receiving

Every relationship — including those within a business — must maintain a flow of giving and receiving.

If employees give too much (unpaid overtime, emotional labor, creative ideas) without fair compensation or recognition, they burn out or leave. On the other hand, if a company gives too much resentment and entitlement can develop.

Sustainable balance creates long-term loyalty, innovation, and mutual respect.


Companies as a Mirror of the Founder’s Family System

One of the most powerful insights in systemic constellation work is that a company often mirrors the unresolved family dynamics of its founder.

This might show up as:

  • Repeating ancestral patterns of success and failure
  • Loyalty to a suffering parent, leading to self-sabotage
  • Family secrets playing out in team dynamics
  • Unconscious desire to “rescue” employees or partners

By doing constellation work, founders and leaders can uncover these unconscious patterns and liberate the business from emotional burdens that don’t belong to it.


Real-Life Case Studies

Case Study 1: The Invisible Co-Founder

A tech company struggled with internal conflict and stagnation after its rapid growth phase. A constellation revealed that one of the original co-founders had been removed unfairly and never acknowledged for their contribution.

After a ritual of recognition and gratitude, team morale improved, and a stalled investment deal suddenly moved forward — a clear sign that the system was realigned.

Case Study 2: The Father’s Business

A second-generation owner of a construction company couldn’t expand, despite having excellent strategies. A constellation showed that he was unconsciously loyal to his father, who had failed in a previous business. The son, unknowingly, was trying to repeat that failure.

When this dynamic was acknowledged and released, he stepped into his role fully — within a year, his company had doubled its contracts.


Why Systemic Work Is a Must for Conscious Businesses

In a time where employee well-being, purpose-driven business, and social impact are priorities, systemic constellation work is more relevant than ever.

Companies that integrate this approach:

  • Attract aligned talent and partners
  • Make wiser, more congruent decisions
  • Navigate crises with clarity
  • Create cultures of loyalty, trust, and performance

They move beyond survival and into soulful leadership — where decisions are made not only with the mind, but with the heart and systemic awareness.


Actionable Steps: How to Bring Systemic Intelligence Into Your Business

  1. Start with a Constellation Session. Work with a trained systemic facilitator to map your organization and identify hidden dynamics.
  2. Honor the Past. Recognize the founders, former employees, and even failures that shaped your company.
  3. Clarify Roles. Define roles and responsibilities based on systemic order, not just titles.
  4. Balance Giving and Receiving. Ensure employees, partners, and clients are acknowledged and compensated fairly.
  5. Bring Ritual Into Business. Simple acts like lighting a candle, saying thank you, or naming a truth can shift systemic energy.
  6. Train Your Leadership Team. Empower leaders with systemic knowledge so they can navigate challenges holistically.

Conclusion: Building Sanctuaries, Not Just Structures

To view a company as a sanctuary is to recognize its sacred function in the world. It becomes more than a structure for profit — it becomes a living organism, a space of creation, growth, nourishment, and transformation.

In the words of Bert Hellinger:

“What is excluded, exerts influence. What is acknowledged, loses its power.”

When we honor the people, the order, and the purpose behind a business, we give it the strength to truly feed families, serve society, and fulfill its destiny.

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